That's been our secret. It's not complicated ... They need space and breaks to have the energy to do the work. Lying to myself. I used to worry that the briefs weren't going to come.

I have been lying to both my husband and my lover and I feel awful about myself. My husband thinks the affair is dead and buried and my lover believes I'm just waiting for my husband to move out.

As a doctor, I pride myself on being able to read people and to call out the nonsense. When I found out he’d been cheating on me and lying about who he was, I started to doubt myself – and ...