Big, loud, door-slamming ... your way is the right way), let’s talk about what you should say to your kids after a fight—and, more importantly, what you should absolutely not say.

IT WAS JUST SO LOUD ... FIGHT THAT BROKE OUT. THIS NEIGHBOR DIDN’T WANT TO BE IDENTIFIED. WE SAW THAT IT WAS LIKE MAYHEM. JUST EVERY SINGLE PART OF THE SIDEWALK WAS COVERED WITH CARS AND KIDS.