On a personal note, when asked what she’d want somebody to find if they searched for updates on her down the line, French Gates replied that she’d want the public to see “she’s thriving on the other side of a divorce.” As for her now, the Pivotal Ventures founder told Elle she is focused on her work while still making time for her personal life.

Melinda French Gates has framed her divorce from Bill Gates in starkly different terms after he called it the mistake he most regrets. Asked by Elle about Bill ranking their divorce as his biggest “failure,

Melinda French Gates cautioned the public against seeing billionaires as monoliths, saying instead she tried to raise her children with a sense of normality.